While Christmas is meant to be a time of togetherness, joy, and rebuilding connections, it often turns into one of the most stressful times of the year. From fraught family relations to complex meal arrangements, it really can be a lot to manage. Not to mention gifts… Christmas shopping requires a few tips to be handled in the right way. Here they are.
Luckily, Christmas shopping doesn’t have to be necessary stressful – here, we go through some simple methods of making this “process” as pleasant as possible.
One of the main things that make Christmas shopping so stressful is that we invariably leave it to the last minute. Starting and finishing your Christmas shopping a few weeks earlier than normal can massively reduce this stress.
While this is easy to recommend, it can be difficult to put into practice. A great way of helping yourself to remain accountable is to set yourself some deadlines, then tell your friends and family about them. Use each other as reminders – you’re all in this together, and can definitely help one another.
Often, we make the shopping process a lot more difficult than necessary, by going to all sorts of inappropriate shops to look for gifts. Cut that whole part of the process out by going straight to places that will sell exactly what you need.
There are plenty of online stores that sell personalised gifts. You’ll be able to browse sections with personalised Christmas gifts for women and men alike. When you find an appropriate option, you can then have it inscribed with a little personalised message or name, making each gift unique and special.
Christmas shopping is also partly stressful because of how expensive it can be. With the rising cost of living, it’s more important than ever to budget properly, and that includes your Christmas shopping.
Set a hard budget for all of your shopping, that you absolutely won’t go over. Then, set individual budgets for each person. You don’t need to spend more on someone to show them you care – you just need to get them something that you’ve clearly thought about, no matter the price tag.
Christmas and the whole ceremony of gift giving is a special process that’s supposed to bring us together, and help us to show that we care about one another. It’s important to keep this in mind when you’re doing your shopping – at the end of the day, it’s about how the gift is given, not so much what you buy.
Keeping this in mind can often make the whole process less stressful. An emphasis on intention and presentation takes the pressure off buying someone an expensive display of affection. Not that there’s anything wrong with expensive gifts – it’s just that the price isn’t really the point.